Graham Nash talks about ‘Our House’ and Joni Mitchell

Graham Nash talks about ‘Our House’ and Joni Mitchell

Graham Nash talks about his relationship with Joni Mitchell and how ordinary things i their lives would inspire his music. He then discusses the unique personalities of the other members in Crosby, Stills, Nash and Young.

The Conversation

what I like to do is celebrate the

ordinary moments in life and I'll give

you an

example I took Joanie Mitchell to

breakfast once in Los

Angeles we left the restaurant we pass

an antique store she looks in the window

she sees a beautiful vase in the window

that she wants to buy now I mean I know

I haven't been with Joan for you know

over  years but she probably still has

her first dollar she doesn't spend a lot

of money on herself but she did buy this

bars and so we went back to her uh house

in Laurel Canyon where we were living

and I said you know something our light

of fire why don't you put some flowers

in that vase that you just and all of a

sudden that incredibly ordinary moment

that you and I as men have experienced a

thousand times you know okay love you do

that and I'll do this and then te you

know dinner will happen and the kids

will be fine you know that's a perfect

example because when Joanie was in the

garden trying to find flowers for the V

she wasn't at her piano which means I

was and our house was written incredibly

quickly what an interesting concept

about writing you say you like to write

about the ordinary moment my life is

made up of ordinary moments well tell me

how does a a British young man become

part of a group that's so synonymous

with American culture American rock and

roll music when I first heard Buddy

Holly and the Ely brothers and Elvis and

Fat Domino and Jerry Lee

Lewis my life was over I knew what I

wanted to do the Beatles were successful

of course and they opened up giant

enormous doors that every single band

wanted to run through you know when they

first had their hit record and conquered

America that's what we wanted to do well

the holl were tremendously successful

British

band uh what was it like when you first

played in the US we thought that we were

going to do our  minutes of dynamite

you know we we got to the Paramount in

Time Square in New York City in Easter

of  on the sup sales Easter show and

the uh stage manager says okay what two

songs are you doing two songs we came

all this way to do two songs yeah but

it's six six times a day and there's  

other people on the same act you know so

it was very strange we had to let go we

thought we knew what we were doing in

our English way but when we came to

America we had to let

go why did you leave the music I had

heard me and David and Steven sing it

was completely a unique sound to me we

you know the Birds and the Buffalo

Springfield and the Hol were very decent

Harmony bands but this was something

different when David and Steven and I

put our voices and Blended them together

before they hit the microphone we knew

that it was something very very unique

and very different so it's the power of

that vocal blend that we got to within

seconds of singing with each other  

seconds incredible is that yeah nobody

sounds like us when we when we're on it

nobody in the world when did the drug

use start did you start with marijuana

yes yes and about when did that start

for me mid  when I first came to La

Canyon and uh we had a a dear friend

Cass Elliot who was the singer with the

masas and Papas and she was the woman

that changed my life completely she was

the one that introduced me to Crosby

David Crosby is one of the most unique

people I know and I know a lot of people

he's an unbelievably unique rare

musician is very Jazz influenc strange

chords strange tunings things I I

personally would as a writer would never

think of Steven Stills who is he Steven

Stills is a leader Steven Stills is a

tremendous tremendous musician a great

arranger

stubborn

um won't quit until he thinks it's right

which I love about him and what about

Neil

Young Neil Young is as I said in my book

he's one of the strangest friends I have

completely dedicated to the Muse of

Music completely a slave to good music

um Neil Young dedicated to his family

dedicated to making the world a better

place who and what are

you there's a part of me that is still

waiting to get found out I'm  years

old now I've been doing this

successfully a long time but there's a

part of my soul

that doesn't quite believe that I should

be here you know I'm this poor kid from

the north of England who had the wisdom

to follow his parents advice about

following his heart in my passion for

music um who am I I want to get the job

done if we're going to commit to doing a

tour or commit to doing an album or

commit to singing a note I want to get

the job done the best way we

can I personally think that time and our

family are all we

have when my father died at  and the

clouds didn't stop scurrying across the

sky and the birds didn't stop singing

and I I realized my God you have to fill

your life with the best you can for

every second of your life

 

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